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Girls always want a Challenge
Understanding a girl's psychology is like separating sugar from milk. People say
girls don't have any logic. That's true to an extent but mind you, they DO have
logic but that is a lot different from how a man thinks. The following example would
help us understand female psychology and what girls want.
Have you ever seen a cat? A girl and a cat behave in a lot of similar manner. Do
the following experiment:
Visit a friend's place who has a cat. Now the moment you enter the room where cat
is around, dont pay even a bit of attention towards it. Ignore it fully like there's
no such think called cat in the room. After some time, you will notice that the
cat will come towards you. But STILL you will ignore her. Now the cat will quitely
come to you and sit in your lap.
Whoaaaa!!!
Your friend will be overwhelmed to tell you that he hasn't seen the cat going friendly
so fast with anyone before. Now the cat would play with you and have whatever you
give to her.
Did you get anything?
A girl's mind also works similarly. You keep giving attention to a girl and she
would never come to you but the moment you start ignoring her, she would get confused
and come to you to get to know what's the matter. Now you can play your game to
attract her.
Experiment #2:
Tie a cookie to a string and hang over the cat, holding in you hand. The cat will
jump, run after it, scratch her nails and do every possible thing to get that cookie.
Now simply drop that cookie into her feet with no interest and see what happens.
The cat wouldn't even smell that cookie now.
Why so? What happened to the cookie? Its the same cookie which the cat wanted badly
a few minutes ago.
The reality is: There is NO challenge for her now.
Girls, like this cat like challenges. Whenever a boy comes as a challenge in front
of them, the girl tries every possible way to test him. And if the boy surrenders,
he has lost it! Because he is no more a challenge for her now. That is the reason
why girls leave a man after getting into an affair with him.
But if the boy stands all her tests, he comes up as a "real man". And mind you,
all girls want a "real man' for themselves who can stand against anything to protect
her. And they keep on testing their man for the whole of their lives. Its in the
nature of every girl. They are hard-wired for that only. When a boy surrenders to
her girl, she loses interest in him and finds him a "wuss" and eventually, leaves
him wondering what wrong did he do.
So, the bottom line is - always be a challenge to a girl. Act like a man. Comfortable,
confident, the one who knows what he is doing with his life. Who takes charge instead
of asking the girl what to do. Who doesn't show he's a sticky and needy wuss.
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